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The Fate of Some Expats

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I have been asked many times since the book came out what it was like to come back to America. It was stepping into an ice cold shower. Greece had been so peaceful and suddenly I was in a violent world. I had culture shock. It triggered a poem.

 

Exile

 

Rain washes the concrete.

I welcome it,

Reminded of something beyond the cars

And shopping center.

 

The vegetables are wrapped in plastic

And memory slides

To where carrots had soil clinging to them,

To the smell of pungent cheese in tiny shops,

To where each purchase was wrapped in paper

By hand, like a gift.

 

Even the traffic can’t drive away

The feel of stones beneath my sandals,

The feel of hot sun on my back.

The radio can’t drown out

Reed flutes and goat skin bagpipes.

 

The hamburger stand, clean and aseptic

Is the café where fishermen play dice

Waiting for the storm to subside.

 

Expatriate

Exiled to my own land,

No refuge but nostalgia.

 

Threshing Wheat – neolithic style

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Cross-Eyed Nikos and his brother Haralambos thresh the wheat harvest. All the tools were made of wood except their hand scythe. In neolithic times it would have been made of stone – but that is the only difference. One day’s work with the help of the animals and they have a year’s worth of bread for two families.

Greek Children’s Rhymes – the things that stick with memory

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Parikia & us from mt.

It has been many years and much of my Greek has been forgotten, but some things stick and I have found nursery rhymes and songs last.

One children’s rhyme we always said when after the mile long steep hike up a stony path to our house expressed our relief at reaching home

Spiti mou

Spitaki mou

Spiti kolavaki mou

It meant “My house, my dear little house, my dear little hut of a house.”

Three pix of our house and one showing the hike.

A Xmas Present – A Greek Christmas Chapter

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My children on our island.

Here is a holiday present. It is a chapter describing our first Christmas in Greece. It was becoming a fierce winter on the island but we had a lovely Christmas anyway.

 

Island Christmas

We were glad we had finally put our foot down about the roof repairs for the rains settled in with a vengeance. For five or six days downpours would alternate with heavy drizzle. We had finally bought a small kerosene heater. The mildew had threatened to take over if we didn’t get the place warm and the tiny fireplace in the corner of the bedroom wasn’t up to the job.

The week before Christmas an arctic cold spell set in. The rain became sleet and even occasional snow. The water on the path to town froze and the goat track which doubled as a stream bed in the rains, became a river of ice and dangerous to navigate. We managed to get to Nikki’s house one afternoon to check on her and Agapitos. They were surviving well but Nikki told us it was the coldest winter she could remember.

We kept the children warm and entertained at home and took it in turns to brave the trip to the village as we made our Christmas preparations.

There were no Christmas trees. The Greeks prized their trees and would never sacrifice one for a single occasion, but they did prune their cypresses and used the boughs as decorations even though it was still a relatively new custom. We pruned a couple large acacia trees in front of our house for our “tree”. The large boughs we cut were still covered with tiny yellow balls of blossom and it looked as though it were already decorated. The kids made decorations out of bread dough we dried and painted.

I searched the village for wrapping paper. It didn’t exist. I finally unearthed some colored art paper in a tiny shop and bought the entire supply. There were few toys on the island and the ones we found were shoddily made and expensive. There was no income tax in Greece. Instead anything imported was taxed. Most Greek children didn’t have toys, but improvised their own playthings except for marbles which were very popular. We found a supply of ceramic ones but never could find the large playing marbles made out of Parian marble that some of the village children had. We couldn’t talk any of them into selling us one of theirs; they were too highly prized.

Instead we made toys for the children. David made a periscope and set of stilts. I sewed stuffed animals and toys. I had noticed that there were very few dolls around. In some houses we had noticed some very fancy and expensive Italian made dolls set on a mantel as an ornament in the place of honor, but never had we seen children playing with dolls. I decided to make all the children we knew rag dolls and spent many evenings on the project working by lamplight.

Tom and Nancy were spending the holidays in Athens but we invited Brett and Anna up for Christmas Eve dinner. We would go to their house on Christmas Day if the path was passable. The weather had warmed slightly so the ice melted but the evening was stormy when Brett and Anna toiled up the mountain and the wind was blowing a gale.

I had cooked a special dinner making as many traditional things as I could using our gas burner and small camping oven. We had roast chicken, stuffing, yams and such set out. We had just sat down when we heard a voice hailing us through the wind. David opened the door in the teeth of the howling gale and shouted, “Yia sou, ela …come in.”

Dimitri emerged from the dark, dripping wet and chilled. It had been three weeks since our last visit and he had missed us. He had heard that Christmas was a big celebration with the foreigners and had braved the storm to share it with us. Brett and Anna had met him briefly before but didn’t really know him. We sat him by the tiny brush fire and wanted to give him a shot of raki to warm him but instead he pulled a bottle of aged Metaxa brandy from his coat, a special potable indeed.

By the end of dinner everyone was very jolly. We all sang Christmas carols while David played a recorder. Dimitri sat back grinning happily, thoroughly enjoying himself. We tried translating some of the carols into Greek for him but Greeks love talking so much that they would never use one syllable where five will do. Even “Oh, Christmas tree” came out “Oh kristouganiatiko denthra” a mouthful of syllables we couldn’t squeeze into the tune. When I told him the legend of Good King Wenceslas he was utterly delighted. Dimitri loved a good story.

We finally tucked the kids into bed after answering Heather’s question about if Santa Claus had a black mustache in Greece instead of a white beard. We didn’t think so. The children safely asleep, we began to fill the stockings by the fireplace. Dimitri was instantly alert

“What are you doing?”

“This is an American custom. We put candies and little gifts in the stockings for the children to find in the morning when they wake up.”

He was charmed, “But that is wonderful.”

He insisted on adding some of his hard earned coins. He was equally charmed when he saw me wrap the last of the gifts in colored paper.

“Beautiful.”

We invited him to stay the night rather than ride back to Marathi in the storm. He consented and Brett and Anna bid us all good-night, inviting him to the next day’s feast. We gave him our sleeping bags.

In the morning he was gone before we woke up. The storm was over and the sun shone.

We had just finished opening our presents when Nikos the Barber and Tarsa walked in. They had come up the hill bringing walnuts and cakes. Nikos also carried a great basket full of oranges. I was sitting on our bed with Heather and Davidaki and he walked up to us and turned the basket upside-down over our heads, showering us with the fruit. The children laughed and the beautiful oranges rolled everywhere. I knew how Papoo’s cousin must have felt when he had presented her with an abundance of fruit.

We took a walk later distributing the gifts we had made for all our friends. We had bought Nikki a fancy coffee set and she insisted on making some coffee for us in it and serving us in her new cups.

At Spiros and Eleni’s house I gave their little girl a rag doll. Her eyes lit up when she saw it and she hugged it immediately. But then over my protests and her sorrow Eleni took it away and propped it up on the mantel next to a huge, elegantly gowned Italian doll. All the dolls I made the children suffered the same fate.

A Couple Greek Sayings

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A couple Greek sayings: Yia to gamos kai taxithi, oute lathos, oute xithi. For a marriage or a journey don’t pour on oil and don’t pour on vinegar. Sometimes no matter what advice you give won’t work in your favor! A clever retort to the question Pos pai? How’s it going? Is “Me ta pothia”, “With the feet.” It means you are just plodding along through life.

Book Signing

Tomorrow, Nov. 28 from 11 a.m. to 4 p.m. I will be selling and signing books at Pedoncelli’s Market in Geyserville.Layout 1

The Prika – the all important dowry

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Dowries – the all important “prika”. The dowry or prika is a woman’s share of the inheritance but it is given at her marriage, not on the death of the parents. It is important in the selection of a mate. The bigger the prika, the more choices a woman will have. For a long time no prika meant no marriage. Brothers were expected to help earn the prika and not marry until all the sisters were happily married off. Could be hard on younger brothers. In more recent years “politithas” or “city girls” whose brothers were sometimes partying away their prikas in the tavernas, began earning their own prikas. Old Greek movies are rife with prika tragedies.

In my book the dowry comes into play for some friends – especially Paraskevi, the youngest of many daughters in a family with no sons. Was she condemned to spinsterhood?

Here are links to buy the book: $20 print, $4.99 ebook.

AMAZON:
http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B015QJ8P4M

BARNES & NOBLE:
http://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/its-greek-to-me-andrea-granahan/1122645089?ean=2940151038669

BOOKLOCKER:
http://booklocker.com/books/8226.html

ITUNES:
https://itunes.apple.com/us/book/its-greek-to-me/id1042759515

KOBO:
https://store.kobobooks.com/en-us/ebook/it-s-greek-to-me